I posted this several years ago, but we tend to forget things, especially if they don’t apply to us.

Why should writers be concerned about the hearing problems of others? Because writers operate in a world with other people, and one day any of you could start losing your hearing.

It’s happened to me, and it often affects my interactions. You might know someone who hides a hearing problem or you might not be paying enough attention to notice. Some people aren’t aware they’re not hearing everything or that people with them aren’t.

For example, I was walking with two people at a writers’ workshop. Since I’m a klutz, I was looking down while we talked. One of the people asked me several times to repeat what I said. After a while he caught my attention and said he hadn’t heard much of what I was saying.

 I thought I was the only person who didn’t hear everything, and I looked up at him and said so. I had been talking to the ground instead of up toward the tall man with me. No wonder he didn’t hear what I said.          

The other person with us commented she hadn’t heard half of what I said for the four years she had known me. I responded that she should have said something, because the half she missed was the good stuff.


  1. If you can’t hear someone, say so. As someone who talks to herself, Itend to mumble, though I deny it to certain people. People don’t always hear me. We all have habits that may prevent others from understanding us, like chopping off the ends of our words. And as we grow older, our ability to hear clearly can diminish. Our friends grow older, too, and they often need help.. Do everyone a favor by being kindly honest.
  2. Don’t walk away while speaking to someone and try to face the person to whom you’re speaking. If you don’t, some of us will lose parts of what you say. Get a hearing aid, you might suggest. Hearing aids can do just so much. They can raise volume, but there are limits and the gadgets don’t help all hearing problems. They cure nothing. Since they aren’t cure-alls, many hearing aid owners discard them. If you have a friend or family member who needs a hearing aid, learn as much as you can about ways to help this person adjust and get the most from it.
  3. If you ask a question that isn’t answered satisfactorily, restate it. Some of us answer the question we thought you asked instead of the one you did ask. When that happens, let us know and make sure we’re looking at you when you speak.


        People who tell jokes or funny stories often lower their voices or look down when they get to the punch-line or the funny stuff. If you look down or drop your voice, some members of your audience won’t get the point, probably more than you realize.

        When a speaker reads a speech, he might lower the pitch of his voice and/or the volume. Readers tend to speak into their chests or the podium, speed up their pace unconsciously, and trail off with their voices as they read.

        Hearing and understanding speakers involves both volume and enunciation, and often involves being able to see the speaker’s face. Many people lip-read to a small degree before they realize they have increasing hearing loss.


   1. Don’t wave away the microphone because you feel you speak loudly enough.

   2. Face your audience when speaking instead of fellow panel members.

   3. Pull the microphone close enough to hear your voice amplified.

   4. Enunciate clearly and make yourself slow down.

   5. Make your presentation without reading it or read as little as possible.

   6. Don’t let your hands or anything else hide your mouth when you speak.

   7. To project better, stand when you speak.

   8. If you have question and answer time, please repeat the question or make it clear in your answer.

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  1. Josie says:

    Very interesting article, MM. You point out some important suggestions when talking and listening.

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  2. Barbara Monajem says:

    Wonderful article. I have lost a bit of my hearing, but so far it doesn’t usually cause problems — although masks do make it harder to hear what people say! However, we will eventually get to stop wearing masks. I do need to slow down when I speak, so I appreciate that reminder. Also, I sometimes speak with my hand half over my mouth, and my dh keeps have to remind me to get my hand out of the way. : o/

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  3. marymarvella says:

    I have turned out during presentations and panel discussions many times.


  4. Carol says:

    You made a lot of great points!

    Liked by 1 person

  5. marymarvella says:

    Thanks, Carol! I live then hearing issues. grin


  6. Hear! Hear! I can relate to this so well. Grand article, Mary.

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